Yoakum Family Update – Mar 2011

I wrote up our latest newsletter a couple of weeks ago.  I’ve just copied the content to the post below… enjoy.  Oh, and if you’d like to get our newsletters via email, just drop me a line and I’ll add you to the list.

A Vision for the Future

We’ve been in Peru for more than a year.  Going in we knew that our first year would be mostly learning language and culture and finding a rhythm for life and ministry.  What we’ve learned is that process is even more important and longer than we imagined.  Over the past several months we’ve been meeting with a mentor here, David.  He’s been a missionary here for over 20 years and now focuses entirely on Christian Coaching for missionaries and Peruvian church leaders.

Through this, over the last several months, with what we’ve learned and experienced, we’ve been working on laying out a new vision and action plan for us as a team and church.  We’re so excited about what God has in store!  We began the process with a deep discussion about the values that we hold dear as individuals and as a team. Working from this starting point we developed a new simple but powerful vision for us as a team and as a church…

life. love. transformation. in Christ.

To us, this simple grouping of words embodies the Family nature of a life in Christ, the Authenticity and Integrity that God desires, our Loyalty to our Lord and the Peace of God that transcends understanding. Moving on from there, we’ve developed a more focused direction, new strategies and an action plan for us to follow together.  We are really exited about all of this and I can’t wait to share more of the details with all of you soon.

Family Update

The first few months of 2011 have been really great for us as a family.  First of all, these are the months of the short but beautiful summer here in Lima. We’ve enjoyed family trips to the beach and both boys are in swimming lessons.  Also, we’ve had the blessing of having interns here with us, the two guy interns are living in our home with us, Kyle and Kyle.  (Yes, that can be confusing at times.)  In Peru, the school year starts in March.  So our boys are back in all spanish “Nido” or preschool.  But, in August, Jakob will begin Kindergarten at a school called the International Christian School of Lima which follows an American curriculum and calendar.  Another big blessing for us is that we sold our car before Christmas and have since bought another one.  It’s a 11 year old blue Mitsubishi Montero SUV and we love it.  Look for pics up soon on our website. More than those things, we have been blessed as a family and we praise God for the way he continues to grow us and our children and provide for us.

Studying the Bible Like Never Before

It seems like everyone we meet here has an amazing story. I want to share a little bit of one of those stories with you now. Her name is Eulogia.  She was born a few more than 60 years ago in the province of Ayacucho.  The town of Ayacucho is a 10 hour bus ride from Lima and she described her home town as a two days walk into the mountains from there.  When she was very young her father left and then her mother died and she was left to live with an aunt that didn’t treat her well.  When she was 10 or 11 she was told that they had found a family to take care of her in Lima and she was sent away to live with strangers.  Essentially, sold as a slave, her hopes that her new family might provide her with the schooling that was unavailable in her home town were soon crushed as her new caretakers told her that she would have to work for her room and board with no time for school.  She lived as an indentured servant with no friends or family to help and with nowhere else to go until she was old enough to finally move away.  Unable to read or write, she took work as a maid.  At least she was earning a wage.

Not long after that she met her husband and began a family, having 4 children, Magaly, Walter, Percy, and Graciela. Together she and her husband squatted on a little plot of land with no electricity or water or sewer on a river in an area that was then farmland and has now been engulfed by the city.  While the youngest baby was just a few months old, her husband left her for another woman, alone to raise her four kids.

Amazingly, working as a maid for decades she was able to keep her kids in school and even send them for training as dental technicians.  Never earning more than a few dollars a day, she has now built up her little plot of land into a comfortable brick home with electricity and running water.  Her oldest married and moved away. But her two sons and her youngest daughter still live in that family home now with families of their own.

We have now gotten to know Eulogia quite well and have been amazed by her story of hardship and struggle.  She has never known the Lord but has seen the change the lord has made in her family and we’ve been “studying” the bible with her for some time.  This is an amazing opportunity.  How do you study the Bible with someone who can’t read or write?  Well, you sit on her couch and eat the juice and popcorn she offers.  You listen to her stories and you read the Bible aloud and you talk about what that means in our lives today.  It’s a slow process, but a beautiful one.  I know that Eulogia is very close to making the decision to give her whole self and life to God.  Mark and I meet with her every Wednesday afternoon.  Please pray for her and the rest of her family that God would show her the beauty of a life lived in Him, the love he as for her and the kind of transformation that takes place when we give ourselves to Christ.

Prayer Requests

  • The phyisical health of our team.  We’ve been plagued by all sorts of things from headaches to parasites of the past month.
  • Our boys, that they would continue to adjust and thrive in Peru.
  • Our team and church as we move forward striving for the vision of the future that God has shown us.
  • Our interns, that they might be changed forever by their experience here and that they be used in what God is doing
  • We are so thankful for God’s provision in our life here in Peru.

The Big Five!

On Thursday our “Super Hero in Training”  (as his shirt says) turned 5 and we celebrated with a Batman Birthday Party!

Mom and the birthday boy

Jakob told me he wanted to play Batman games, have a birthday cake (NOT cupcakes) with M&Ms and marshmallows on it, and he wanted to play home run derby at the park. Well, he got 3 out of 5 of those and seemed pretty happy! We had a great time celebrating him and he had a lot of fun with all his friends.

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(We weren’t done singing, so Daniel was trying to keep him from blowing out the candles too early.)

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And yes, he has three cakes.  I ran out of time.  My plan was to put the two cakes together to make one big cake and then cut out the batman symbol from the brownies to put on top of the big cake with yellow m&ms surrounding it to make the yellow oval.  But as Wes and Trevor say, “You do what you can.  You don’t what you can’t.”  (And since I had a sick kid while Wes was in the jungle the few days before the party, I don’t win the “Super Prepared and Un-Stressed Mom” award.)  :)

So the first thing we did was have them watch a short Batman cartoon, because we wanted to make sure they knew who Batman really was and who the villains are, too.

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After that Wes led them through a scavenger hunt that the Riddler left for them. They had to follow clues that were hidden in certain spots and pop the balloon to get the clue. Jake loves all kinds of problem solving and puzzles so he had a blast. The first clue was my favorite (Wes made them up). It said, “When your face is all grimy and your hands are all slimy, this is where you go to get clean all the timey!”  Jake yelled, “The Bathroom!”  And off they ran to get the next clue.  The last clue led them to “Stomp the Villains,” (lots of balloons with bad guy faces drawn on them) and there was candy inside the balloons waiting for them.

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Wes worked hard last weekend to get the playground finished (minus the slide, because we haven’t figured out where to buy one of those, yet). So, that was Jake’s present from us. You can see it in the background there behind Kyle playing tug of war with the kiddos.

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And here are some more pics of the playground.

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The climbing wall.

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The sandbox and fireman pole. And the side where the slide will eventually go.

Not only do I have an incredibly gifted and amazing husband who is an awesome Daddy who can build anything and fix anything, he is also a talented artist. So of course I asked him to make a “Pin the Cape on Batman” game. Turns out 5 is a great age for that game. They loved it!

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Wes explaining the game.  Yes, Batman is giving us a gig ‘em.

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Friends!  Maddox, Jessica, Parker, Joel, Jake, Daniel, Sofia, Kellan, Derek.  James was in the sandbox.  And I’m not sure where Cailyn is.

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Opening presents.

We are blessed!  We love you, Jake, and can’t believe how fast you are growing.  Thanks everyone for helping us make his day special!  Click here for more pics.

Depression Update

As many of you know it has always been really important to me to be open and honest about my journey through depression. We made a page on our website that tells my story, so please read it if you haven’t already. I do apologize for anyone who is uncomfortable by my openness with it. But I am so thankful for the lives that God is touching because of what I’ve been through. So even though it is an uncomfortable subject for many, I am blown away by the goodness of God to make Himself famous because of it.

It has been on my heart lately to give an update. Praise God, because I have nothing but good news to share! This past December I went back to Texas for a check-up with my Psychiatrist and Psychologist. My main questions were about medication, because I am still taking Fluvoxamine. I asked my Psychiatrist what my technical diagnosis is. She said that I no longer have Major Depression (which I already knew), but knowing my history, she said that I do have Dysthymia. Because of this genetic predisposition to depression, I am in no hurry to stop taking medication. My Psychiatrist said that when I feel like I am in a good, stable place, where everyday stresses are at a “normal level,” then I can feel free to slowly ween myself off the dosage and see how I do. Now that Wes and I are fully aware of the red flags and symptoms of depression, we would be able to tell soon how my body would react to that.

All in all, we were really pleased with this news.

My Testimony.

A few weeks ago God also put it on my heart to write out my most recent testimony. I felt that there were some here in our small house church that would be blessed by hearing it, so we were given an opportunity for Wes to translate it for me so that I could share it. We are excited about the ways God is working through our team to minister to more and more Peruvians here. It is truly an exciting time to be here and be a part of God’s mission in Lima, Peru!

If you want to read this testimony, click here. I have added it as another page on our website.

A great weekend

On Friday night we had dinner with some great friends that we have met here in Lima.  The Burgess family is a missionary family from England, they have two interns working with them right now, and they also have two little boys who Jake and Derek are in pre-school with.  Wes grilled steaks, so we had good food, and fun was had by all.

On Saturday our family went with Kyle, Jenny, and Taylor to the zoo.  It took us several hours to get there, because we hit some traffic as the coastal road was closed due to the tsunami warning (it ended up only being a meter here, so no flooding or damages).  So when we finally got to the zoo we had a great time.  Here’s a few pics.

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Wes and Derek.  Like Derek’s hair cut? And that cute Brashear crooked smile?

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Jake, Kyle, Derek, and Wes looking at some monkeys.

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Pre-Inca ruins are all over town, even the zoo.

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After the zoo, Taylor, Jenny and I went straight to the Thompson’s house for our first ever women’s Bible study.  I have been really excited about this and waiting for this day to come!  We had 7 Peruvian women there and they all enjoyed it so much that they decided to meet for this study not just once a month but every Saturday afternoon.  There are few things that I enjoy more than studying the Bible with a small group of women!

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girls bible study

Also, some other news about our ministry here–for the past month our church group has been meeting every Sunday afternoon at our house.  We have enjoyed having a group here ranging from 30 to 40 people, and we’ve also enjoyed the benefits of our small backyard since that is where we have our children’s Bible class.  We have not had very many Peruvian kids join our class, yet, so most of the time the kids class is in English.  I got a few pictures today after church and a video of Wes and Kyle (a.k.a. Mr. Nacho) wrestling with the kids.

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The backyard playground.  Slowly but surely Wes is getting it finished.

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Soon they will learn that they can’t win this battle.  :)